Imagine if you were in a world that you could not choose your own spouse or make
your own choices.you should not join this world because you cant make your own choices
or get what you want.
First,you cant pick your own jods,in the ceramony of 12 the chierf elder gives youa job to have.
Jonas tells the giver ”We need to choose our own choices and pick our own jobs.”
Second,you have to get a jod at 12 it says ”A girl recieved a the job of a birthmother.”